Self-inquiry, not self-help

Most programs tell you what to do. This one teaches you to understand why you do what you do — so any change you make actually sticks.

Structure without prescription

Nine modules, video lessons, reflection worksheets, and optional 1:1 check-ins. A framework that holds the work without doing it for you.

Mapped from real experience

I didn't read my way to this. I ran from it, crashed, and rebuilt — slowly. This program traces the terrain I actually walked.

About the program

Tend Your Fire started as a question: why do capable people keep repeating patterns they understand intellectually but can't seem to change? The answer has less to do with strategy and more to do with knowing yourself at a level most people never reach. This program is my attempt to build a road into that territory — not as a guru with a system, but as someone who made the walk and wants to show you the path.

Marco Dal Porto

I spent a decade in construction and real estate, managing hundreds of millions in projects. Externally successful. Internally disconnected. That gap led me into nervous system work, psychology, meditation, and yoga — not as hobbies, but as survival, then as practice. I built this program from that journey. Not to tell you what I figured out, but to walk alongside you through what you might find.

Curriculum

9 Chapters · 39 Lessons

  1. 1

    MODULE 0 — ORIENTATION

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      VIDEO 1 — Welcome from Marco

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      VIDEO 2 — How This Program Works

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      NOTION — Your Starting Kit

  2. 2

    MODULE 1 — 7-DAY LIFE AUDIT

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      VIDEO 1 — Audit Intro

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      VIDEO 2 — You Have Received Your Report — What Now?

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      VIDEO 3 — Connecting Your Report to Week 1

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      AUDIT — Complete Your 7-Day Life Audit

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      NOTION — Sitting With What You Found

  3. 3

    MODULE 2 — 21-DAY RESET (COMING SOON)

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      21-Day Reset — Coming Soon

  4. 4

    PHASE: RECOGNIZE

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      Your Map Before the Journey

  5. 5

    SECTION 1 — Dissolving Negative Internal Dialogue (Weeks 1–2)

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      VIDEO 1 — What the Inner Voice Is and Where It Comes From

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      VIDEO 2 — How Negative Self-Talk Actually Operates

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      VIDEO 3 — Changing Your Relationship With the Voice

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      VIDEO 4 — Building a Counter-Narrative

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      NOTION — Worksheet 1: Your Inner Voice

  6. 6

    SECTION 2 — Current Trauma (Weeks 3–4)

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      VIDEO 1 — What Current Trauma Actually Means

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      VIDEO 2 — Recognizing Your Active Patterns and Triggers

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      VIDEO 3 — The Body as Signal

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      VIDEO 4 — What You Are Avoiding and Why

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      NOTION — Worksheet 2: What Is Live Right Now

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      CALENDLY — Book Your Section 2 Call

  7. 7

    SECTION 3 — Childhood Conditioning + Relationship Dynamics (Weeks 5–6)

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      VIDEO 1 — The Family System — What Was Installed Before You Could Choose

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      VIDEO 2 — How Early Relationship Dynamics Repeat in Adult Life

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      VIDEO 3 — The Rules You Did Not Write — Identifying Inherited Beliefs

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      VIDEO 4 — Seeing It Clearly Without Judgment

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      CALENDLY — Book Your Section 3 Opening Call

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      NOTION — Worksheet 3: The Root System

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    SECTION 4 — The Armor Around the Heart (Weeks 7–8)

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      VIDEO 1 — What the Armor Is and How It Formed

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      VIDEO 2 — How the Armor Shows Up in Your Life and Relationships Today

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      VIDEO 3 — The Core Reframe — Living From the Heart Is Fearless Not Weak

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      VIDEO 4 — What It Means to Not Need the Armor Anymore

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      NOTION — Worksheet 4: The Armor

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      CALENDLY — Book Your Section 4 Call

  9. 9

    SECTION 5 — Self-Love + Relational Readiness (Week 9)

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      VIDEO 1 — What Self-Love Actually Is

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      VIDEO 2 — Why It Is the Foundation Not the Outcome

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      VIDEO 3 — Relational Readiness — What Changes When You Love Yourself

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      VIDEO 4 — The Practice Going Forward

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      NOTION — Worksheet 5: The Return

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      CALENDLY — Book Your Closing Call

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